How to pleasure a woman (part 3): You

Obviously, you play a big part in her sexual life and satisfaction. You know that, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading a blog called How to pleasure a woman. How does she feel towards you? For sexual chemistry, it boils down to three things, and I often joke that you need at least two out of three: love, lust, and trust.

Love is essentially her positive feelings towards you because you have proven to be someone who makes her life better overall. Lust is her body feeling sexually drawn to you, it’s a very old and primal feeling, which is why some people fear it, but it really adds the spice to sex. Trust is essential for her to feel comfortable with you when she’s most vulnerable, psychologically and physically. Here is how it breaks down for you:

1. Love: Being a nice guy, helpful, and reliable makes a woman love you.


2. Lust: Being physically attractive (in shape or at least clean and well-groomed), confident and independent makes a woman lust after you.


3. Trust: Being open, honest, respectful, and never disappointing her in a major way makes a woman trust you.

Your attitude, expectations, feelings, past experiences, etc. play a critical role in your ability to pleasure a woman. I hope my writing so far has given you some things to think about and some ideas for changes.

Lastly, there is what you’ve been probably looking for the most so far: technique, tips, and secrets. Next time I will start talking about more specific tips of how to pleasure your woman and how to give her an orgasm.