There is a saying along the lines of "look at how someone eats and you can see what type of lover they are". There is some important truth in this statement that relates directly to how to pleasure a woman.
Imagine any enjoyable activity, such as watching a great movie, reading a fascinating story, or eating a delicious meal. Do you want these activities to end as fast as possible? Probably not.
So why create so much pressure to "finish" the most pleasurable of all human activities: sex. Orgasms are great, but they don't last very long, and the intensity of an orgasm depends a lot on the quality of the prior stimulation. Besides, sex is about physical and emotional satisfaction, and "feasting" on sex can greatly increase your emotional satisfaction as well as give you a more intense orgasm.
A fancy five-course meal is a great treat after which you feel full and satisfied. Why? Because it took time and was all about enjoying the process of eating, not because you ate everything rapidly to reach the feeling of being full as fast as possible.
Everything in life has a structure: movies, books, songs, symphonies, days, meals, and sex. There are introductions, buildups, tension-release cycles, and climaxes, etc. Understanding this structure and then creating variety based on your understanding of this structure will go a long way in improving your skills to pleasure a woman.
So take your time and simply enjoy what's going on during sex without any pressure to finish. Experiment, treat yourself to slow "five-course" sex and mix it up with some fast and uncomplicated "gobble down a burger" sex. Understand the flow of things and keep it interesting. The book I recommend lists a great variety of 500 stimulating ideas for how to pleasure a woman.
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